It's always amazing to many how these muslim brothers can get up to such mischief and the wife never knows.
How can a brother have a girl friend in another town and the wife never know? Well much of this happens when you have the husband living or working in another town or region seperate from the wife. So then it becomes easy to live this life especially if the husband has no expectation of the wife showing up unexpectedly and if the wife has no friends or associates in said town where husband is.
The question is though is it better not to know or would you want to know or be told - knowing that this may be the straw to break the proverbial camels back? Of course sometimes the wife does know and is just in denial and doesn't want to confirm what the reality is and would prefer to pretend. What's the point of asking a question when you don't want to know the answer or are not ready to deal with the inevitable fallout?
Solutions to this problem - well the men need to fear Allah and follow the rights of Allah upon them. The muslim brothers with friends like these should admonish them and not just go along with the program. How can you allow your muslim brother to commit a sin punishable with death by stoning and remain silent?
No one is infallible and without sin but how and why has the muslim community followed after the non-muslim to such a severe degree that even the phenomenon of girl friends on the side is becoming more and more prevalent?
The situation is very sad and yet another sign of the last days.
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This post is true and dear to my heart...men sumtimes.....just are a little to wordly...
Sigh.
How come we don't know?
Because we love them. We trust them. And we'd NEVER show such behaviour ourselves. We make room on our pedestals of faith and honesty for our husbands to stand beside us. But we shouldn't do that anymore. They don't know the glory of standing up there until they have clawed their way up.
Nice post, but why did you just HAVE to bring up non-muslims and label them? What, muslims didn't have girlfriends until non-muslims dintroduced that concept? Don't be ridiculous. Harems, multiple wives, concubines, etc are not exactly a non-muslim phenomena, you know. And I think it's rather more cultural than religious. But oh well, muslims are (or in your opinion, should be) a totally different breed. Well, good luck with that.
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